Musings on Masculinity

23 Jul

I’ve been wanting to write about masculinity for some time. I have a bunch of thoughts as a man myself, as a son, as a brother and as partner to a woman. 

I will share some thoughts I’ve had about women (Latinas) as well. These thoughts include a history based ambivalence I observe they have.

I have a lot to say about my relationship with my Dad.  He had an outsized role in my life. I worked hard on that relationship.  

These musings have to do with male gender conditioning as I know it.  This is the cultural side of masculinity.  However, as a biologist, I know that there is a biological side as well. I will do a bit of gathering info as Its something I’ve wanted to do for a long time.

I will mention some thinking about transgender identity…The most fuzzy area of my thinking.

All that said, I want to start out the discussion lightly with an idea that my friend and I came up with….THE MACHO GOD.  

I think it’s a funny but useful idea to show the way men adhere to a swirling set of masculinity ideas.  Masculinity as religion illuminates a lot of features of men’s lives.  Its over the top, but purposely so.  

Next post — the graven image of THE MACHO GOD!!!

The nitty gritty of Food, Life, Pissing etc.

26 Jan

What is food?

Dead life

What is life?

Leaky bags of chemicals. In fact, that is what all human and non-humans are…leaky bags of chemicals.

What is Food again?

Dead bags of chemicals we find around us

What is eating?

Stuffing through the opening in the bag (that is us) the dead bags of chemicals we find around us

What does eating do?

The dead bags of chemicals keep our chemicals replenished and active.

What is exhaling, sweating, shitting, pissing, tears, spit, vomiting, ear-wax, snots?

Other chemicals that we use or can’t use or don’t like getting leaked out that end up grabbed and used by other bags of chemicals around us in their bags.

Thus is life in a nutshell.

NY Rose

21 Nov

You know, I just love this pic. I was walking down the street and I saw it and I thought, “how incongruous!!…yet poetic” I took the pic (w/ my new phone..FUN!) and it just looked soooooo great! Makes me think of an album cover or something. Kinda iconic. I sent it to a new friend. Showed it to my bro after seeing Dr. Strange. I just love it!!

NY Rose

A little art on a pic….kinda fun

19 Nov

Painted nail

14 Nov

Pipe cleaners

13 Nov

Interesting flower pics

9 Nov

1- Because no bee’s?  2- Off center makes worth looking?

Deadly Green

3 Nov

Notice the symmetry of the unfolding needles…An unfolding of pain!

Needle 1

Green Cthulu

2 Nov

Just like the monstrous, creepy, Great Old One…FullSizeRender

Here is an example of the importance of knowing what’s what

16 Sep

paranormal4The Politics of Paranormal — inside samegrain

http://insidesamegrain.com/blog/paranormal-part5